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Female Ejaculation
You may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not even know what it is, as many people do not. Female ejaculation is not only very real, it is something that ALL women can achieve, and is a very basic female sexual response that has remained a mystery until recently.
Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and making up the G-Spot) during sexual arousal.
How Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum?
There are two types of female cum that can be excreted during sexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal. You probably have noticed it is milky and ranges in its thickness and odor based on a woman’s diet, overall health and the phase she is experiencing within her menstrual cycle.
Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing female ejaculation and is less common. It is the watery ejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that is generally less known about. Again, this is not because only a few, special women are capable, but rather due to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues in this culture.
What Is In The Fluid?
The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.
Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic acid phosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is "wet" or has had an orgasm.
Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors.
Any Health Implications?
There is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about it. In fact it is not only visually erotic to watch, the sexual release for the woman feels incredible.
However, thousands of women each year are told that female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which it is not) and that they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response! Where in fact it is actually good for women much like the benefits of prostate massage for men, because it cleanses the urethra it can also prevent Urinary Tract Infections.
Be aware that the woman is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum.
Why Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?
One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus, making it feel like she has to urinate when actually she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.
There are techniques to achieve it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women. These techniques not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.
Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the woman extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation she will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.
Take the Plunge
Another essential part of female ejaculation is G-spot stimulation. Finding your G-spot is easy! If you enjoy penetration, part of that feel-good feeling is probably a G-spot sensation. G-spot exploration is more about rewiring your thinking about your own body than it is a quest for some secret "button" you’ve never noticed before.
1. First, take some time to get aroused. Masturbate the way you normally would. Before you start looking for your G-spot, have an orgasm or two to congratulate yourself for being such an intrepid G-spot explorer! If you don’t have multiple orgasms, tease yourself to a high plateau of arousal. When you’re all warmed up, your G-spot will be easier to feel because it swells with blood and fluid during arousal.
2. Lube up your fingers and let them do the walking. Feel the relatively smooth walls of the vaginal canal. Touch your cervix if it’s within range. If you’ve never felt around your own vagina before, take some time to touch the different areas. Press against the vaginal walls. Notice the texture of the tissue and how it feels when you touch it.
3. Next, focus on the front wall of the vaginal canal (that’s the one nearest your belly button). About one or two inches in, the surface will feel ridged and rough compared to the rest of the vaginal tissue. Press against that tissue and see how it feels. It might not feel like much. It might feel sensitive or uncomfortable. It might remind you of the sensation that tells you that you need to pee. It might feel yummy! Press harder and feel around for your pubic bone. If you can hook your finger behind it, see how that feels too. Surprise! You’ve just found your G-spot! The rough and ridgy area we’ve explored on the front vaginal wall is the G-spot, also known as the urethral sponge or the female prostate. Think of it as a G-area rather than just one spot.
4. Add a toy. Fingers are suitable G-spot stimulators, though a lot of folks find that it's easier to reach your own G-spot with toys, and that they provide good, firm stimulation. Any dildo or vibrator with a firm curve is a great G-spot option.
Some of our favorites include :
Experiment with stimulating your G-spot, and find stimulation that feels right for you.
Let it Flow
Some women will find that they naturally ejaculate with G-spot stimulation. For others, a few more steps are involved in teaching your body to ejaculate.
1. Before stimulating your G-spot, empty your bladder. A lot of women don’t ejaculate because the only sensation similar to ejaculation is urinating. If your bladder is empty, you won’t have to worry about peeing in your bed. If you’re aroused, stimulating your G-spot, and feel a sensation similar to the need to pee, continue with the stimulation and relax your PC muscles. You’ll probably ejaculate.
2. Make a conscious effort to ejaculate. If you’re stimulating your G-spot, relaxing you PC muscles, and riding that "something is going to happen" feeling but nothing's going, push out with your PC muscles. Most likely, you’ll push out the ejaculate. And you’ll squirt or sprinkle rather than gush.
3. Add clit stimulation. Many women find that the G-spot stimulation feels great, but that added clit stimulation, via tongues, hand, or vibrator, will take them over the top. Try a vibrator on your clit and a curved dildo like the Krystal's Strobing Bunny in your vagina if you're by yourself, and see what happens.
What if after all this exploration, you don’t like G-spot stimulation or you’ve never ejaculated? In the process, you’ve collected a lot of new information about your body and what you like during sex. It’s worth checking back in with your G-spot occasionally. Sometimes G-spot sensitivity changes with your monthly cycle, or over a lifetime. Then again, female ejaculation is not a must to achieve sexual bliss, we still feel it is more of an icing on the cake -- on top of intimacy, communication, and the desire to satisfy one’s partner’s needs.
-------------------- Editor @ Sensual-Lifestyle.com 2005 |
