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Having married for a few years, coupled with daily stress and demands from work and everything else, sex is probably the last thing on our minds. Sometime last year, I bought myself my very first dildo. It is a really huge rubber one, around 10 inches in length and about 8 inches in circumference...looks real with veins and a BIG head. Though I have given birth before, it was still a pain in the ***** (excuse the pun) to use it, especially when inserting it! Guess I was being too greedy thinking I can take ANY size in me...haha.
Subsequently, my hubby and I got more adventurous and has since tried different types of vibrators, cock rings, pumps, sleeves etc. Since then, sex toys have been a regular companion during intimacy, and definitely made it more fun and interesting!
Through vibrators, I have even had my very first clitoral orgasm, which is amazingly liberating knowing I can climax through penetration as well as clit stimulation!! Sometimes when we are too tired for sex we would pull out our toys and either masturbate each other or just go solo but it could still be an erotic sharing of affection without the actual act. I think everyone should have sex toys and enjoy sex toys. They have definitely enhanced our sex lives!
---------- Anonymous, uneditied , 25 June 2004 |
